After I’d left my new English friends to do solo travelling, my first stop was Thanjavur. I wanted temples in Tamil Nadu, and it seemed to be a toss-up between Thanjavur and Madurai. Thanjavur won, because I suspected it was less on the tourist trail.

In case you don’t know, CouchSurfing is an online community in which travellers offer and make use of hospitality offered. It’s based on the premise that this makes travelling more affordable, but more importantly, gives travellers the opportunity to experience the community they’re visiting at first hand, rather than in the somewhat detached way hotels can offer.
So I stayed with Gwen, an American doing post-graduate research at the University there. We’d exchanged emails over a month or two, and she didn’t feel like a stranger when I met her. She gave me a wonderful welcome and few days with her. Gwen had made it her business to be part of the community she lived in. She’d learnt fluent Tamil, so had good relationships with her neighbours. So while there, I had the chance to mooch round and enjoy with her the rangoli decorations and lights put out at night for a Hindu Festival of Light (not Diwali, yet another one).

I met the neighbours and was invited into their homes. I narrowly avoided a big faux pas with one household: a young couple, both teaching at the university. Invited to sit down, I nearly plonked myself in the nearest vacant place on a sofa. I recovered myself in time and did not sit, after all, next to the husband, but squeezed onto the other sofa, with the women. Gwen said it would have seemed very odd to them if I hadn’t remembered in time. We chatted to another neighbour, a Christian, who explained that she liked to keep the Hindu festivals too, and showed us her Hindu decorations taking their place alongside her pictures of the Pope.
I ran errands for Gwen, and in that way had several language-less conversations in the food market, where everyone was keen to shake my hand, because tourists in Thanjavur don’t generally go and buy half a kilo of carrots.

We zipped round on her scooter and bought takeaways. These are known as ‘parcel meals’, and neatly packed up for you in a cotton cloth. We caught local buses together and visited temples. We had meals, served on a square of banana leaf, in local cafés. I wandered round her neighbourhood when she wasn’t there, and saw a small community going about its day-to-day business.
I was woken in the morning to local sounds: the Muslim Call to Prayer transmitted by loud microphone at, erm, 5.30 a.m. : the church bells ringing a few minutes after that (20 % Muslim and Christian communities here): the street hawkers who kicked in at about 6.45: the day-today noise which seems to begin so early in Indian communities.

And of course it was interesting to talk to Gwen, who knew exactly what I would be finding difficult, and could guess what assumptions I might be making. She gave me the odd Tamil lesson, and more importantly a gesture one (‘Yes’ and ‘No’ are the opposite way round from ours, I learned rather late in the day). She was much the same age as Tom and Ellie, but that didn’t seem to matter – it didn’t to me, anyway.
I’m ashamed not to be giving you an art history lesson involving all those temples. Quite simply, I didn’t label my photos well enough. Instead, I’ll give you a picture-show: From Thanjavur itself; from the small town of Kumbeshwara which has eighteen temples; from the exquisite temple at Kambakonam; and from Dharasuram. Sadly, one of my main memories of Dharasuram was the astonishing pain of trying to walk round the site. One always leaves ones shoes at the entrance to a temple, and the paving stones were fiery hot and burning. As usual, no surface remained unadorned, but studying them in detail proved impossible.
Besides the detail of the sculptures, enjoy the temple elephant giving us a blessing, and the bronze worker busy working at the bazaar within the Nageshwara Shiva temple in Kumbeshwara. Don’t think of these places as simply being lavishly decorated places of worship. They’re living communities, with bazaars, sometimes cattle and elephants. Some, such as the Chola Temple at Thanjavur, have inviting grassy spaces. Bring the family for a picnic!
Wow! What a time you had soaking up all those sights and sounds not to mention burning the soles of your feet and being woken up at the crack of dawn!
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I don’t believe I really slept for a month. No wonder I ended up … Oh! No! Spoiler alert!
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I’ve never been to India, but it all seems so frenetic when I see images on TV… and how wonderful to have someone to show you around who also spoke the language.
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It was. The smaller towns aren’t too hectic, and rural India is wonderful. The noise and hustle of the cities is quite hard to take.
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Great set of photos, love the close ups of the ornate stonework. I realise stylistically it’s not the same as the medieval work found on English cathedrals, but the wish to adorn seems the same. That desire appears to be a sentiment that 20th/21st architectural ‘good taste’ has somewhat crushed. I can only think of William Mitchell’s concrete sculptural murals used to decorate buildings that have a similar ornate quality otherwise it’s all smooth, blank surfaces.
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I loved the exuberance of the adornment: at least when it was in simple stone. The painted examples seemed gaudy and over-blown to me. I would have loved a good, scholarly guide to help me interpret what I saw.
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Yes, somebody who can provide context hopefully enhances these cultural experiences.
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Dear Margaret
We like your photos but we don’t like India. We travelled for 7 months through India. For us it was too populated, too noisy and, well, too much of everything. Afterwards we went for half a year to Nepal and Ladakh that was like heaven in comparison to India.
Wishing you a great week
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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I know what you mean about urban India. However, rural India is a different beast altogether. My 10 days in the Western Ghats, and then in rural Kerala count as among the most memorable of my life. Truly special.
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Well, we travelled in Kerala as well, actually, we travelled from Kashmir (dangerous but very beautiful) to Kerala. We agree that Kerala was the best.
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Really enjoyed this recall Margaret. It is so much better to experience other cultures when you try to integrate.
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Yes, it was harder in India than it is in Europe. Gwen was a very lucky find.
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Such fabulous experiences. Did you keep in touch with Gwen?
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Sadly, no. We lost touch, though are allegedly friends on Goodreads.
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I love these exotic temples full of ornaments and other lovely details! Your time in India is certainly something you will never forget!
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Indeed. It’s more than ten years now, and many moments are still sharp in my mind.
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What an amazing way to really get the feel of authentic India! I’ve never heard of that approach. The photos are fantastic–what incredible sculptures–such detail!
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I was so lucky to find Gwen, the perfect host. In many ways, Couchsurfing is for students and young people. It’s rarely high-end accommodation. But as a way into an unknown place, it’s unbeatable.
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Wonderful photos, Margaret! What an exhilarating time you must have had with so much to see and take in all the time.
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Exhilarating, exciting, exhausting, unforgettable. Thank goodness for my diary!
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I couldn’t cope without my diary.
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As in Pepys’ style diary, or appointments diary?
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I’m hardly in Pepys’ league but my diary doubles as an appointment diary and a place where I record what I’ve done and seen during the day.
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Good for you! I tend to do it only on holidays and so on I should make more of a thing of it. No wonder you’re able to blog about events from several weeks before.
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Once upon a time, a very wonderful Indian lady, Madhu, used to spin tales of her continent. And far beyond. If I could see India in her company… 🙂 🙂
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Wouldn’t that be wonderful?
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I envy you those travels, Margaret….
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So lucky.
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😊
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