
I quite forgot that I had already written in July about how my journey from Mamallapuram, via Chennai, to the airport then home to England was severely curtailed by my Indian Adventure ending up in a hospital stay.

But you might like to hear a little about it.
What picture have you got of an Indian Hospital? I bet it’s wrong. My ward at Sri Balaji Hospital resembled pretty much any ward in an older-style British hospital that you may have come across – only cleaner. It sparkled with clean paint, fresh blue and white candy-striped sheets and general good order.

There were four beds in my unit, and it really surprised me that there were both male and female patients. This is a country where I had quickly learnt that it was not OK for me to sit next to a man on a bus, yet here I was in the much more intimate setting of a hospital ward, right next to one man and opposite another. We were looked after by two nurses at night and two by day, all in smart white jacket-and-trousers uniform. The nurses, being Tamil, are of quite astonishing physical beauty: I really couldn’t take my eyes of ‘my’ night nurse, Jhoti, whose loveliness extended to her personality.
They appeared equally taken with me, and would pat and stroke me, or chuck me under the chin at the least provocation. As I started to get better, they amused themselves teaching me Tamil. With one exception, they didn’t speak much English, but what they did know, they’d learnt at Nursing School. Phrases like ‘Go to the toilet’/’Use the bathroom’ etc. were not understood, until light dawned. ‘Ah! You want pass urine?’
Besides nurses there were:
– Nice ladies in saris who appeared to fulfil some kind of auxiliary role.
– Doctors – lots.
– Men in blue jackets and trousers who seemed to be gophers, called Ward Boys.
– Men in brown, ditto – porters.

The night nurses did twelve hour shifts, just like many of their counterparts in British hospitals. Before you feel too sorry for them, they told me that when doing night shift, they work just 10 nights a month.
Medication and tests of all kinds flowed freely – they make the pill-popping French look amateurs.
No TV, no radio, no nice ladies from the WRVS dispensing sweets, newspapers and library books. No getting up either. You lie in bed until you’re good and better, and meanwhile you do nothing. I was caught attempting to wash in the bathroom on my last day, and was chivvied back to bed and given a bed bath.
At visiting time, those of us without visitors did not go without attention. Dozens of noses were pressed against the glass wall of the ward as curious onlookers gave us all the once-over. I felt a bit like an inmate of Bedlam in the 18th century.
When I was discharged, I had a bill to pay of course: one which, together with my altered journey arrangements, would eventually be settled in full by my travel insurance (there’s a moral there. Though they made a big fuss that I hadn’t got in touch with them from the hospital. I told them that on a busy ward, I’d been able to make just one call – and that wasn’t even to my husband). I was utterly terrified of what horrendous sum might be taken from our bank account for my three day stay. I can’t remember exactly what it was. But it was in the region of £30.
So that was it. Feeling still pretty ropey, I had secured an internal flight back to Bangalore, and after an interminable wait through the middle of the night in a draughty luggage hall, an onward flight to London, and later, back home. Where, apparently, I barely spoke for three days. But I made up for it later.
After that experience you must have felt you could cope with anything!
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… or alternatively, nothing at all. I was a wet rag for weeks.
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I am not at all surprised!
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oh my, what an experience . . so glad you were looked after well and made it home xx
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It was all part of the adventure, I guess x
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What a great way to look at it xx
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Oh, goodness, what an experience….but it sounds like you were well looked after
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VERY well looked after. My biggest problem was having run out of reading matter.
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Not good!
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As a former nurse of 40 yrs, it was fun to read of your experience….so pleased you weren’t ‘detained in bed’ for too long and were able to travel home. I’ve heard very mixed reviews of Indian hospitals (including horror stories from Indian nurses), so I’m thrilled you seem to have found a good one!
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It’s where I was dumped after my unceremonious and unfortunate journey. Someone was looking out for me!
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I think there are good, and bad hospitals in all countries. The really bad thing is that in so many countries if you cannot afford to pay you do not get treated. You definitely struck lucky there Margaret.
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I did, and I was lucky, I know.
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I can imagine you must have been utterly drained when you finally got home. Even without the illness such a medley of vivid experiences must have left you craving some quiet stability for a while. But what an adventure!
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It was. And you haven’t had the half. The odd ‘My hols in India’ post may pop up from time to time!
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Oh good!
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My goodness, Margaret! What an experience! I have a friend who is a retired nurse and medical school lecturer who, after she retired and until recently, spent a few months every year training nurses in a hospital in India. Her experiences were amazing!
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I bet she had some tales to tell. Did her hospital resemble ‘mine’?
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From what I remember, it was quite like yours. They never had enough equipment and surgical instruments. If they did manage to acquire anything it was stolen almost immediately. This included parts of the building structure and any cables for telephones and the internet. Food and drink was cooked on ancient tiny primus stoves. The one thing my friend loved was the linen was all dried outdoors – no tumble dryers – and was much fresher and cleaner than our hospital linen. I could go on, but I won’t!
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Oh, well of course I never got to her any horror stories. But my sheets were lovely and fresh.
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I love a dramatic ending, Margaret 🙂 🙂 Yes, I had in mind the hospital in that TV series whose name escapes me but it was good romantic nonsense. Rainy day stuff, perhaps… though I should, of course be practising my Portuguese.
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Go! Practise that Portuguese. My only word is ‘obrigada’.
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Awful to fall so ill when travelling and more so when travelling alone. The hospital must been disconcerting in several respects but what a relief to have caring staff and well run wards. The trip home sounds arduous and not surprising you got home so exhausted. How amazing your hospital costs were so low – and also covered by insurance too!
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In fact it wouldn’t have been a disaster if they hadn’t covered the hospital. But the flights – that would have been a different story. I have very warm memories of the hospital. A real port in a storm.
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Whew, it had to be awful to get so sick when traveling. Thank goodness the hospital staff took such good care of you. I enjoyed seeing what an Indian hospital is like.
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Apparently they vary a lot. I was certainly lucky.
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