Once upon a time – 1989 actually – two babies were born: a girl in England, a boy in Spain. They each had siblings more than ten years older than they were. They each went to school and did well, and in due course they went to University.
When they graduated, they wanted to train or work as teachers. The reality was that one of them could only find a job in a call centre, the other by working in a bar or restaurant It wasn’t what they wanted.
By chance, opportunity knocked. The English girl got the chance to work as a teaching assistant in Spain. The Spanish boy became an au pair in England. They worked and learnt hard, and within a year, both had found regular teaching posts.
Since then, five or six years have passed. The English girl speaks Spanish with ease. The Spanish boy is very comfortable speaking English. Their careers have developed nicely. Each considers the country that they ended up in, almost by chance, as home.
Have you guessed yet that the English child is my daughter Emily? The Spanish child is my new Spanish teacher Javi. If they wanted, it’s not impossible that they could swap the lives they’ve chosen by exchanging their jobs, their homes and their social lives with each other, and go back to their countries of birth. But they don’t want to. They’re settled, and feel enriched by the choices they’ve made. It’s called ‘Freedom of Movement’.
From Pyrenees to Pennines 
Well done for both. Your story reminds me that Charlotte Bronte taught in Brussels.
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Of course! I’d forgotten that. I hope my daughter’s life is in other respects rather different.
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Yes no unrequited love for the married Head.
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It makes me sad to think that their situation may change owing to our government’s stupidity.
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It’s a worry. Freedom to move round Europe to work and study benefits all parties involved.
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The best of what 21st century, contemporary living can offer, why oh why would anybody living on this small island want to go backwards. I despair.
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You and me both Agnes.
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Seem to recall Emily Bronte went to Brussels too but didn’t stay as long.
Great tale. New Spanish teacher? We are overdue a catch up! X
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Indeed, Emily couldn’t wait to return to Yorkshire.
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And indeed, who could blame her?
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Oooh, I got confused there, since my daughter’s an Emily too! My Emily’s Yorkshire will be confined to visits now.
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We are. If you want to learn Spanish, Javi’s your man!
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Oooh – I was rushing ahead and already saw the wedding bells for your Emily and the au-pair Spanish Javi…. what a great story and what an even greater misère that your beautiful country is going backwards …. but I won’t go any further, I know that you are despairing too! I remember how difficult it was for me as a Swiss to visit my husband when he got a work permit for his job in England…. On every trip I had to fill in papers and had to take the ‘long route’ through customs, telling every time the same story, which was checked and checked again…. I even had to renew my Swiss passport this year because we fear that ‘only’ with our ID cards we won’t be let in anymore on any of our next visits of our English friends. The world could be such a splendid place if everybody was a bit more accommodating. We often say that (particularly in Switzerland but I guess everywhere) all those people who are so narrow-minded and self-obsessed, should go abroad here and there for a few months/years, learn about other cultures, other mind-sets and learn to open up their hearts and brains, things would be much, much easier for everybody.
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Well said!
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Indeed. The people who would most benefit are the least likely to do it – for all sorts of reasons, good and less good. Your ID sagas chill the blood. Aaaagh.
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Sadly, I know too many people from my own country who would love to build a Mexican Wall around their ‘private garden’…. And this although hardly anyone in Switzerland has the means to buy their own house or even an appartment!!!! But they have huge MIND GARDENS full of privacy and sceptisim, xenophobie and blinkered opinions.
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They have both done very well and have (I am sure) worked very hard to get where they are. As the others have said before me, the current political situation cannot make either of them feel as settled as they would like.
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The length of time of their stay seems to help …. but not a lot. I despair of this country at the moment.
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I know – it’s pretty bad. However, we aren’t the only country in trouble at the moment! Plenty of bad decisions have been made around the world recently.
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Indeed. We sometimes have not-entirely-serious discussions about where to move to, post Brexit. Nowhere is trouble-free, apparently.
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We could come up with far too many scary stories about how freedom of movement is under threat right now. Emily and Javi have worked within the system, it seems, and are probably safer than people who are fleeing a dangerous country/situation, etc., and not working through the system? Or is this one more thing I’m clueless abut?
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Of course they’re not either refugees or asylum seekers with all the misery and danger that can entail. However, England has been busily removing the right to remain from some European citizens who have lived here for years with their English spouse with whom they have children. There’s a story like this in the papers several times a week.
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