And … we’re back. Our Swedish adventure has filled our memory bank with so many wonderful sights and experiences, and I’ll share some of them here. I’ll begin, not at the beginning of our holiday, but at (almost) the end.
Last Friday was Midsummer Eve. We’d planned a day of sightseeing in a part of Stockholm we hadn’t explored at all, and hopped onto a ferry – our preferred method of travel in a city built on 14 islands, with up to 30,000 more in its Archipelago. At the terminus, puzzling over our map, an American offered his help. We could tell that he was no fellow-tourist, as he had a pushchair laden with with rugs, picnic hampers and all the clutter needed for a day out with his – as it turned out – Swedish-American family. ‘You can’t go into the city! Everything’s closed!’ We’d forgotten. Swedes celebrate on the eve of a Big Day. Christmas Eve is their Christmas Day. Midsummer Eve is their Midsummer Day. He argued that we needed to jump onto a ferry bound for one of the many small islands and join in everyone’s fun. Why not follow them, and choose Sticklinge on Lidingö? It sounded like a plan.

On our ferry – especially dressed with branches for the day – we met a young Swedish woman as encumbered by gifts and picnic paraphernalia as our new American friend. She said she was doing what every Swede aims to do – celebrating Midsummer on a small island with friends. Hers was a stop or two beyond ours, but she Googled our destination, and got us the programme of events.

The ferry stopped at this and then that island, where families laden with good things got off for their own celebrations, and then at ‘our’ island for the day. We were not burdened with picnic paraphenalia, so toiled off in search of an open shop. A slightly shabby convenience store yielded nothing better than nuts and biscuits, but we wouldn’t starve…
A quiet path through the woods took us to the beach.

And here, we found ourselves part of low key celebrations. Families quite simply enjoying time together: eating; beach games; swimming; linking up with friends, neighbours, acquaintances. Our new American friend’s mother arrived with plates of food for us, aware we had little of our own to eat.

An accordian player loosely compered the event, and at two o’clock, the maypole was raised: not be-ribboned, like its English relative, but hung about with greenery. The accordian player acquired a little team of girls who wanted to sing along. More and more people arrived: women and girls – often in white, or pastel shades – and decked with home made crowns of flowers for their heads.



Then it was time for dancing around the maypole. We had no idea what was going on- lots of miming: pretending to scrub laundry (?) or jumping as frogs during the frog song (?) We thought it best to sit it out and watch.
After that, we thought we’d go, and leave families to finish their day out together. We went for a wander in the woods, before we took the ferry that puttered back and forth collecting passengers from the many little islands here. Then it headed back to our starting point, where that lucky chance meeting had given us the gift of enjoying special Midsummer Moments.

I’ll now resume normal service. I’ve not been reading anyone’s blogs for the duration – sorry – though I hope I’ve continued to respond to comments.
I always wondered what my Swedish friends got up to at Midsummer, Margaret, but I knew it was a very special time for them. How lovely to have such a warm welcome xx
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Weren’t we lucky? It comes with so mmany happy memories of All Things Swedish. xx
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Unexpectedly lovely day out
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Absolutely. Being unexpected was the icing on the cake.
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I am glad you got to experience Swedish midsummer. Sounds a lot like the mission her in Finland, people fleeing to the country side, summerhouses and Helsinki is nearly empty, there are more people in the city nowadays, but we all try to head
out of town. This year was the first city summer as visited our son in Oulu.
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I think I realised that all Scandinavain countries have a similar way of celebrating misumer. It seemed so special, though so simple. I hope your City Midsummer was a success for you with your son.
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So heartening to see families enjoying age-old traditions out in the countryside. No electronic nonsense needed.
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Absolutely. Good old-fashioned family fun. Beach games and swimming, shared food, and keeping old traditions alive. Perfect.
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It looks to have been just lovely, Margaret. And what luck that you found yourselves included.
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Wasn’t it lucky? One of the joys of travel – serendipity.
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How fun!! Maggie
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How lovely to have such friendly folk to assist. Sounds like a good end to your trip. My own memories of celebrating midsummer in Norway was on the top of a mountain on Midsummer Eve at midnight with a bonfire. Food and drink and good company.
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The Scaninavians seem to do Midsummer so well. Such fun, yet with a real community feel too. We all had good experiences then!
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They light beacons in Cornwall, but I have never seen them. Maybe I should make an effort next year.
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That seems unusual. After all, beacons aren’t so much needed on light summer nights!
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Not needed in the Land of the Midnight Sun either!
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Indeed. I thought ‘our’ event would last till midnight. But everyone had cut and run by 5.00 p.m.
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How wonderful to have chanced on those people and be able to experience them Swedish Midsomer!! Quite a day out
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Weren’t we lucky? A holiday highlight.
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A real highlight, for certain
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A fortuitous encounter for a wonderful day out. I like the generosity of people to strangers in a strange land
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Wasn’t it a wonderful gesture? That simple act of friendship to total strangers gave us such a great experience.
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That’s why I like to stay in an AirBnB with the hosts.
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Fair point. Most hosts are lovely. But there’s always one …
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One out of a few million isn’t too bad odds
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👍
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How lovely to be invited into the celebrations, and what a great experience!
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It was wonderful. Low-key happiness is often the best.
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Oh that’s lovely. You actually got to spend midsommar in Stockholm, and it was bright and sunny. Almost 40 years ago I spent the afternoon and evening somewhere in the north with friends, and it rained most of the time. The Swedes don’t let a little rain dampen their spirits at mid-summer, but I think your day looked much more lively.
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It was perfect, because the previous week had been cold, so this welcome sunshine seemed a real bonus. Swedish sumertime at its best.
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What a wonderful adventure. I am going to share this with our Swedish friend. Sometimes we are ‘planted’ in the right place at the right time, especially those who are up for a little adventure. Glad to read you had a wonderful time. I look forward to reading about many, many, more adventures.
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I hope your Swedish friend is still able to celebrate Midsummer in America. I’m sure s/he can with a little help from American friends!
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What a wonderful moment of travel serendipity giving you the opportunity to join in something unique to the country and very special to its people!
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Honestly, low key though the day was, it as one of the highlights of our visit. Serendipity rules!
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How wonderful. Such great community spirit and friendliness to strangers!
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That was our general experience in Sweden. A most welcoming and hospitable country.
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How wonderful! What a joyous gathering. And a judicious meeting at the ferry. Glad you had such a perfect finale to what sounds like a great trip. Look forward to hearing more.
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Weren’t we lucky? The right person at the right time.
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What a fun trip!
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It was. A highly recommended experience.
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Your wonderful friendliness scored the family a day to remember in the heart of Swedish culture!
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Weren’t we lucky that one of your compatriots took us in hand and extended such a wonderful hand of friendship?
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Happy you had a good day. : )
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😊
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Welcome back! And with such a charming tale.
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Thanks Anabel. Yes. ‘charming’ is just the right word.
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How lovely! Simple and charming, but a completely new and unheard celebration to me.
Thank you for sharing these photos and the story of your day.
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Getting it down ‘in print’ was as much for me this time. I don’t want to forget this lovely day. ‘Charming’ is absolutely the right word.
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Welcome back Margaret. Looks like a gorgeous day. Nice to see since we aren’t seeing the sun much right now.
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Ah, the world has gone crazy. We are seeing far too much sun here in Europe, but Sweden was within civilised limits, It was the very best of holidays – thanks Leanne.
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What a beautiful and fun experience Margaret! It’s great when you find gracious locals, and can take part in their celebrations.
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It really was special. Thanks Anne.
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Wonderful! How lucky you were with helping hands and celebrations in a small party! I can feel the calm and beauty of it! Sweet memories!
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I absolutely love Sweden. We went there three years ago, will have to go again soon.
And same as the Swedes, we celebrate things on the eve of the day. Like Christmas Eve.
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Indeed! And whereas we think Eve-ish celebrations are odd, you must find ours strange too. Yes, Sweden, once discovered must be visited again!
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It doesn’t really matter when you celebrate until you move country. We always celebrated Christmas on the Day when we lived in England because it was tough to explain the kids that Santa would come to our house a day early. On the other hand, we couldn’t make a big fuss with family over the phone because they celebrated on the Eve. LOL
This wasn’t our first visit to Sweden but the first one after our son lived there which was an extra special adventure. We couldn’t visit him while he studied there because first hubby was in hospital, then we moved and then Covid hit. But that visit with the boys was just wonderful.
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We all seem to have great memories of Sweden. Best keep it our secret …
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What a special experience to share unexpectedly in a lovely celebration of midsummer and community.
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It really was special. A day to remember.
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