Six Degrees of Separation: from Knife to The Lightless Sky

On the first Saturday of every month, a book is chosen as a starting point and linked to six other books to form a chain. Readers and bloggers are invited to join in by creating their own ‘chain’ leading from the selected book.

Kate: Books are my Favourite and Best

This month’s starter book is Salman Rushdie‘s Knife, a memoir written in the aftermath of the attempt on his life in 2022, and as a result of which he lost his sight in one eye. I haven’t yet read it. But I have read another memoir which deals with the shadow of death.

This is Amy Bloom‘s In Love – a Memoir of Love and Loss. Bloom has written a searing account of the last year of her husband Brian Ameche’s life. This became a roller coaster year: except it wasn’t, because as she points out, roller coaster rides are thrilling, fun, and fast and furious. Ameche’s last year of life was none of those things. It was the year in which he received the diagnosis he – and she, and those close to him – feared: dementia. Within a week, he had decided, and never wavered, that he would choose to die rather than totter onwards through some kind of half-life . The book reports, dodging back and forth through time, their exploration of how he might die, and arriving at the decision that Dignitas offered him – well – dignity in dying. Against the odds, this book is often wry, funny, darkly humorous, sarcastic and savvy. The pages turn very easily. It’s a moving, very thought-provoking memoir.

Now to a book featuring a character who has – not dementia, but its close cousin – Alzheimer’s disease. The Wilderness, by Samantha Harvey. This is the story of Jake, 65 year old Jake, whose wife has died, whose son is in prison, whose daughter ….. well, Jake has Alzheimers, and we tumble with him into a tangle of reminiscence, misleading timelines and confusion, as like him, we try to make sense of his new helplessness and puzzlement about the fates of those he holds dear. It’s a wonderfully imagined book, which gave me real insight (and fears) into an existence entirely dominated by unreliable memories, whether of mothers, lovers, or where to store the coffee cups. Here is a man who was once an architect with vision, now reduced to dependency and frustration. Beautifully written, it had me gripped till the last page.

Here’s a book about a wilderness of the natural world kind, by Jim Crace. Quarantine. I read it years ago, long before I kept reviews of every book I read. So I’ll quote Carys Davies, writing in the Guardian. ‘Crace’s masterful novel takes us into the parched and hostile landscape of the Judean desert, where we meet Christ himself – naked and fasting – and a small band of other “quarantiners”, all with their different reasons for being there. A spellbinding tale that is by turns funny and grotesque, lyrical and philosophical; a fascinating study of hope and fear, belief and imagination’.

Delia OwensWhere the Crawdads Sing is set in a kind of wilderness too – a wild untamed place at the edge of the sea. Is it the perfect novel? Perhaps. It’s got something for everyone: a coming-of-age story about a young friendless girl, Kya, abandoned by her family and siblings, who has to make her own way in the world as ‘Marsh girl’, living in a shack on the shoreline. It’s a mystery story. Though this element unfolds slowly, once it developed, it had me gripped until the very last page. It’s beautifully evocative nature writing too, informed yet lyrical, capturing the soul of a North Carolina marshland shoreline rich in bird and other wildlife. This is a book about Kya herself, and about the community where she grew up in the 1950s and 60s, with its racial divisions.

There’s a wilderness of yet a different kind in Leo Vardiashvili‘s Hard by a Great Forest. Saba, his older brother and his father came to England – originally as asylum seekers from Georgia following the collapse of the Soviet Union. They’re dogged by guilt that they never managed to bring Saba’s mother over before she died. Some twelve years after their arrival, the father returns to Georgia, to Tbilisi, then disappears. The same happens with Saba’s brother when he goes to look for him. So Saba goes too. What follows is an adventure that is in turn picaresque and Kafkaesque. His trail is guided by the dead relatives and friends who speak to him from the grave, with their grievances and advice. He is by turns optimistic, melancholy, cynical, and with a great line in absurdist wit. In his quest he’s assisted by the first taxi driver to give him a lift, Nodar, who offers him bed and board, and then all of his time. Nodar has an agenda of his own, which first leads to the story’s first crisis. Their adventures have a nightmare quixotishness which are exhausting to read, and full of menace. Leitmotifs running through the book are the incidents involving the wild animals who have escaped from Tbilisi zoo and roam town and countryside randomly, and sometimes menacingly. This is a galloping adventure story that is at times difficult to read, because rooted in an uncomfortable reality.

Vardiashvili was himself once an asylum seeker, arriving here when he was twelve. So was Gulwari Passarlay, who wrote The Lightless Sky. This memoir is the story of an ordinary twelve year old Afghan boy, forced to become extraordinary when his family pays traffickers to get him out of the country and into Europe. It’s the story of a child forced within weeks to become an adult confronted with situations nobody should ever have to deal with. It should be required reading for anyone who’s ever complained that such people should get back where they came from, that they are here for the benefits they can extract from their host country. This is a powerful, harrowing book by a boy – now a man – who has survived, and is now making the most of every opportunity that he can to change the situation of refugees and our perception of them.

I’m not going to attempt to link this last book back to the beginning of my chain: except perhaps that both are memoirs. Instead, I’ll tell you that next month’s starter book will be Rapture by Emily Maguire. And I have this evening finished the first book which I’ll link with it.

With the exception of my first image, which comes from the Times’ article about Ameche’s decision to end his life, the rest come from photographers contributing to Pexels: Abdul Rahman Abu Baker; Christyn Reyes; A G Rosales; Roman Odintsov; Tolga Karakaya. Thank you to each one of them.

Six Degrees of Separation: From Prophet Song to Hard By a Great Forest

On the first Saturday of every month, a book is chosen as a starting point and linked to six other books to form a chain. Readers and bloggers are invited to join in by creating their own ‘chain’ leading from the selected book.

Kate: Books are my Favourite and Best

Prophet Song, this month’s starter book by Paul Lynch was one of my winning reads of 2024. Here are the final sentences of the review I wrote about this book, set in the near future, in Ireland. ‘This story brought the reality of life in Syria, in Ukraine, in Palestine frighteningly into focus. The final pages should be required reading for the anti-asylum-seeker lobby.’

Which leads me to my first book, which though not about living in a war zone, is about asylum seekers and illegal immigration: Sunjeev Sahota‘s The Year of the Runaway. Three Indian migrant workers in Sheffield, one legally married to a young Indian woman from London for the sole purpose of obtaining a visa. Once obtained, divorce and freedom for them both . This is their story. The young married man is relatively privileged. Another is here on a student visa which forbids him to work. But how otherwise can he send money back to his family? The third is low-caste and lost his entire family in political riots. In England, they are equally vulnerable to  poverty, violence, exploitation as they move from one squalid and back-breaking workplace to another, always inadequately housed and nourished, always looking over their shoulder for their illegal or precarious status to be uncovered. This is an important book, helping to uncover the lives of the would-be migrant who has few choices, whatever the level of privilege enjoyed back home. And a readable one too. No wonder it got shortlisted for The Man Booker Prize.

Now a book about other immigrants to England, in Caryl PhillipsAnother Man in the Street. This is a book about loneliness. It’s about leaving your homeland and facing rejection and even hatred, It’s about Victor, who left Saint Kitts in the Windrush years as a young man, in order to better himself. It’s about Peter, a Jewish refugee from Central Europe. It’s about Ruth, who’s English and firstly Peter’s, then Victor’s lover: but who’s cut herself off from her South Yorkshire home and family in moving to London. And it’s about Lorna, Victor’s abandoned wife.who came with their son Leon to join him from Saint Kitts. It’s told in the first, second and third persons, and the narrative moves back and forth in time and place over a 40 year period between these characters: always lonely and largely friendless, failing to communicate even with those they live with. They are generally speaking meek, and in the shadow of their pasts. An unsettling, if thought-provoking read.

Living abroad can take many forms, as shown in Katie Kitamura‘s Intimacies. This is a novel about dislocation, in many forms. The unnamed narrator has just moved to The Hague from New York to take up a temporary job as interpreter at the international criminal court. Her father has died, her mother has returned to Singapore, and as the child of a diplomat, she has lived everywhere and anywhere. She is rootless, and wonders if she will find a home here. Her boyfriend, Adriaan turns out to be married ‘but not for much longer’. So many ‘ifs’ and uncertainties. Not one thing in her life is certain or permanent. She’s unable to plot a clear path to her future, or even decide if her current career path is for her. This book is compellingly, lucidly, yet sparely written, yet establishes an intimacy between the woman and her reader. I found this a memorable book which deserves a second reading.

What happens though, to an immigrant who returns to the place where she was born and raised? This is the story told in the sequel to Colm Tóibín‘s Brooklyn: Long Island. Eilis came from Ireland to New York to marry Italo-American Tony twenty years ago. With reservations she’s happy with her lot, but some shocking news lands as a bombshell, and she uses it as an excuse to go back to Ireland to celebrate her mother’s 80th birthday. The story continues from Eilis’ point of view, and also from that of her former best friend Nancy who is having a secret affair with Jim, the man Eilis once loved. And it’s also told from Jim’s standpoint too, All three are dealing with complicated and conflicting emotions. The plot moves slowly forward until the last 50 pages or so. Then it hurtles into a maelstrom of action and emotion, unresolved even by the last page of the book. Is a third novel in the offing?

And what happens if instead of living, however precariously, in a country that is not your own, you are instead quite literally, all at sea? That’s the story of Maurice and Maralyn by Sophie Elmhurst. This is an adventure that reads like pacey fiction. It’s actually a true story: a love story, a tale of endurance in unimaginable hardship. The core of this book is the account of the 118 days a couple, Maurice and Maralyn spent adrift in the Pacific on a life raft, bereft of – well – anything really. Certainly they had no way of communicating with the world beyond their tiny and unstable refuge. We learn the backstory of Maurice, isolated, shy, largely estranged from his family: and how he meets the more outgoing Maralyn, their relationship founded on their love of exploring the Great Outdoors. Of how they scrimp and save to build their own ship, planning to sail to New Zealand. They plan carefully, systematically, but an encounter with an injured sperm whale sinks their ship. It’s a tender portrait of an unconventional love affair, as well as a quite astonishing tale of survival against all the odds.

I’ll round off with a book I’ve yet to read: it’s our next choice for our book group. Leo Vardiashvili‘s Hard by a Great Forest. It seems to fit the theme I’ve established here, dealing as it does with Saba’s homecoming from London to Tbilisi, Georgia after more than twenty years away. Here’s what the Guardian says: ‘A compelling story about war, family separation and ambivalent homecoming … propelled by dark mysteries and offset by glorious shafts of humour.‘ I’m looking forward to this.

Perhaps it looks as if there aren’t too many laughs in my choices this month. Yet each one is leavened by lighter moments too. I wonder if next month’s starter will be too? It’s Salman Rushdie‘s memoir, Knife. I’ve reserved a copy from the library already.

The image accompanying Long Island is by Josh Miller, courtesy of Unsplash. The remaining images are my own.